Thursday, June 28, 2007

Proud Mama


My daughter Emily (aka Mini-me) graduated from the 8th grade last week. I can hardly believe that she is nearly 14 years old and will be off to high school in the fall. Where did the time go? Am I really THAT old? Still I am proud of her academic achievements and all of her friends looked so beautiful and handsome in their dresses and suits. I was good though and didn't cry during the ceremony!

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Sick Part 2

So.....I am still sick. I'm pissed because I have neither the time, patience, or funds to be sick like this. For the foreign contingent who reads this the U.S. healthcare system sucks for the 45 million uninsured people, of which I am one. To compound this the cash price of obtaining care and medicine is astronomical.

I called the doctor to let him know I was still feeling miserable in spite of the antibiotics and other medications he prescribed. He told me to come see him which I did. He pronounced that while the bronchitis was largely gone the infection in my ears and sinuses were resistant to the antibiotic and it needed to be changed. Due to complications from asthma I was also prescribed a steroid inhaler to help with the bronchial inflammation. Doctor's visit was free courtesy of the university, the medication was $167. I nearly had a heart attack in the pharmacy.

So for $255 I feel a wee bit better. Hopefully my recovery will be more speedy with the medicine.

Friday, June 22, 2007

Sick

I am sick. I hate being sick. Especially in the middle of summer when it is hot outside. This has been going on ten days now and has caused two trips to the doctor, the first of which I was told I had a viral infection and it would go away in 2-3 days. Yeah right. Second visit to the clinic 5 days later and get seen by another doctor who wondered why I waited so long until I pointed out I had come in 5 days before. Diagnosis: bronchitis, sinus infection, ear infection, and asthmatic reaction to the bronchitis. The prescription pad gets whipped out and off to the pharmacy I go. $98 later I emerge with antibiotics and a new inhaler. Been taking the medicine for 3 days but I am still miserable and the doctor order more medicine to be added to my cocktail over the weekend and orders to rest. I hope I feel better soon.

Monday, June 18, 2007

Good Karma

Well to balance out my post about bad karma....along comes one about Good Karma!

My friend B planned on coming down from Brooklyn to stay with us on Saturday because he needed to finish doing some handyman stuff for me. So he calls and tells me which train he is catching and that he will call me from the station so I can go fetch him. I never got a call but I called him several times and there is no answer. Long overdue, I finally hear from him and he says he is using a pay phone (they still exist?) and he lost his cell phone so he got off the train to go look for it but didn't find it. He says he is going to his aunt's to borrow her phone and then come to NJ. So I called his phone again and a lady answers! I ask her "Did you find this phone in Penn Station?" and she says she found it lying on the stairs. I explain to her that my friend B who was on his way to see me realized he dropped it and went to find it and she said that she and her friend had tried to find him on the train but didn't know he got off. We made arrangements to meet so I can pick up the phone from her the next day. Finally I hear back from B and tell him that the phone was found and the ladies will get it to me the next day. He was so relieved and my faith in humanity was bolstered once again.

To Sandy in Somerset, NJ: You and your friend are awesome!

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Indian Writers

My love of all things Indian extends to written works as well. While in Pune you could usually find me at Crosswords on JM Road, they definitely made some money from me! OK...now for taking on Itching to Write's TAG challenge of reviewing books authored by Indians....

1. The Namesake by none other than Jhumpa Lahiri: A stellar tale of belonging to two worlds at once but not fitting neatly into either. A profound examination of the family dynamic regardless of cultural background. A search for identity navigating between how you see yourself and how others see you. I've read it about 20 times and still discover new things about it. No, I haven't seen the movie. I'm afraid it will ruin it for me.

2. Rainy Days in Madras by Samina Ali: A story about breaking out of what is expected of you. How compliance is not necessarily the best thing and the realization that no matter how you hard you try to shape people you cannot force them to be what they are not. Family is examined in a more nebulous fashion-people do not have to have the same blood coursing through their veins to be considered family.

3. For Matrimonial Purposes by Kavita Daswani: A rolicking tale of the quest of a not so desirable girl to get married past her prime. Written with humor and sensitivity it was a page turner that I devoured in two days time. Told with brutal honesty you want to cheer in the end with Anju finally finds her prince on her own.

4. Interpreter of Maladies by Jhumpa Lahiri: This was her first book which I read second lol. A collection of short stories which are completely plausible in the converging and sometimes colliding worlds of the East and West. The stories are brief but pack an incredible punch. Some I can relate to, I won't tell you which!

5. The Death of Vishnu by Manil Suri: Vishnu is the odd-job man at a Mumbai apartment building. While he lay dying he reflects on his life-what could have been, what should have been, and how it really was. He reflects too about the pettiness of near neighbors in an apartment building. Great insight on everyday life.

6. The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy: Yes, it won the Booker Prize and was highly acclaimed. I didn't care for it too much...it was tedious to get through and there wasn't a whole lot that grabbed me and pulled me in. Essentially it's about a set of twins of which one tragically drowns as a child and the other is devastated to the point of becoming mute and the quirky cast of family members surrounding them.

7. Queen of Dreams by Chitra Banerjee: Set in San Francisco it is a tale of a mother and daughter who are often at odds. The mother is a dream teller who ran away from the dream teller sect to marry a forbidden boy and who lands in America with her husband. The daughter is ABCD who harbors jealousy for her mother's gift because it keeps them from being close. The only comes to understand who and what her mother is when she dies in a quasi suicidal car accident. Rakhi grows close to her father as he interprets the writings of her mother's dreams. Rakhi also struggles being a single mom after marrying and divorcing another ABCD with a rebellious streak. She finds that her daughter has the gift in the wake of 9/11.

8. The Hero's Walk by Anita Rau Badami: Beloved Maya wins a scholarship to a prestigious Canadian university but gets engaged to a local boy before she goes. She writes home to her uninspiring father to tell him to break the engagement because she married a white Canadian. He disowns her but his wife still talks to her as she moves forward with life in Canada and has a child herself. Unexpectedly, Maya and her husband die in a car accident and Maya's father goes to Canada to collect the girl to bring her home. A twisted tale of the daily occurrences while living with an extended family ensues.

9. Desirable Daughters by Bharati Mukherjee: Tara is a high caste Delhi Brahmin married to the seemingly perfect man who is a successful technology entrepreneur in Silicon Valley. She finds life stifling and leave with her son who turns out to be gay and artistically inclined and a huge disappointment to his father. Tara lives with reckless abandon taking up lovers left and right without regard to what others think. Through her son she unwittingly uncovers a deeply hidden family secret that surfaces after decades and everyone still denies. Many twists and turns hook you line and sinker!

10-11. The Twentieth Wife & Feast of Roses by Indu Sundaresan: A historical fiction recounting the rise of Nur Jahan in the Mughal Empire. Meticulously researched Sundaresan weaves a masterful tale of how women were an integral part of the strength of the Mughal Empire. This book sets the stage for her second installment Feast of Roses which chronicles Nur Jahan's continued rise of power and the eventual overthrow of her husband by his son who ironically is married to her niece Arjumand which she arranged. Arjumand is better known as Mumtaz Mahal for whom the Taj Mahal was built to enshrine.

Next up....Inheritance of Loss by Kiran Desai

Cheers!